I decided to take a cue for my darling blogger friend over at Sips of Jen and Tonic and write something while under the influence. I haven’t been drinking. I took cold medicine and while I am waiting for it to kick in I figured I’d write a post and update you all on just how sucky my life can be. Sure it is normally not something that will shatter my life but just a pile of little shit that just adds up, ya’ know?
Yesterday and today have been great (and by great I mean super-duper not great.) Yesterday some creeper guy tried to add me on Facebook then sent friend requests to everyone on my friends list. That isn’t scary or stalker like at all. I got about ten texts and messages asking who the guy was and then posted something asking people not to add him because quite frankly this behavior scares the shit out of me. I have to deal with some creepers in my own life. I don’t need another one online. Dating gives me my fill. So I posted something saying please do not add this guy. I have no idea who he is. This morning I wake up and we have fifteen (FIFTEEN!) mutual friends. Thanks a lot assholes! Let’s encourage the stalker.
PB got home from Vegas, Sunday and I hadn’t heard from him so today I texted him and asked if he was ever going to tell me about his trip. He said he was. He told me he was in the ER with a friend and when they took her back he’d call me. I told him he could just text if he wanted and we texted for a little bit. After a while he didn’t respond so I got on Facebook and saw he had posted a status update saying he was the hospital with his ex-girlfriend. After about an hour he sent me text saying he was getting shitty reception and he was sorry for the delay in the response. I suspect he was waiting until she wasn’t around to respond to my texts and that was the delay. If he would have just said he was with her I wouldn’t have been too concerned but he definitely wasn’t open and forthcoming with any information about who he was with. Because he wasn’t I don’t trust anything he said.
So basically, I have a stalker and PB is a big fat liar. I guess February had one last card to play. I am okay. I am sure the stuff with Pretty Boy will hit me at some point when I haven’t taken cold medication and the creeper guy is just that for now. I’ll be fine but still it has been a crappy two days. Puscifer may be the highlight of my month. Fucking Puscifer!
SilentMyth
/ February 29, 2012While reading your post, somewhere in the middle, I felt I am looking at a mirror. Just have to say, Keep your chin up girl.
trjensen
/ February 29, 2012Thanks doll! I am keeping it up. You too, okay?
mysterycoach
/ February 29, 2012Sigh… I”m sorry, this sucks….
oh man. Good for you though addressing the stalker! … Sorry, you know how I hate that shit. Freaks.
You know, men are … I think he was avoiding hurting your feelings in some way by saying who he was with, but the stupidity of it, is that he posted it on facebook. dugh? No! no! I understand what you’re saying completely… not making “any” excuses for the bone head at all.
trjensen
/ February 29, 2012I know you aren’t. I am sure he was trying to spare my feelings. After the lapse in texts he said I will just call when she goes in. I told him not to. I couldn’t talk to him. I was pissed and that was not the moment to address it. Not texting him again. He sent me text this morning apologizng for last night. I ignored it.
mysterycoach
/ February 29, 2012May I? … I think, perhaps (I have an interview to go on so I’m trying to think of words quickly?) you’re upset with him too because of all the other stuff… you know, that’s gone on between you and had other ideas and … if I had to guess, it still stings a bit… Know what I mean? I am sooooo sorry, but I have to go and get ready for an interview at 7:30 and pick up my daughter prior… ! BRB … or… you know, see you later … I’m sorry though.
a2realhousewife
/ February 29, 2012Sorry. I do know from working in a large Health System that we do not have cell service in many parts of the ER or as we call it the ED – emergency department. If I may, try not to text him and wait until he texts you. My husband is always telling me that men do not like anything that appears “clingy” in their relationships.
trjensen
/ February 29, 2012I am not texting him anymore. Sometimes I let my girl emotions get the better of me. LOL! He sent me a text this morning apologizing for last night. I didn’t respond. It didn’t really require one.
daterofboys
/ February 29, 2012Effing FB stalkers…
Effing PB jerkface…
Sorry you aren’t having the best go…March will be better, I hope!
trjensen
/ February 29, 2012March will be better! It’ll be warmer. I can run and exercise more. I can get out of the house and do other stuff. I am also getting a fulltime JOB! I need something to do besides worry about men. I think an office job would be good or a contract production job. Three shows shoot in Portland and surely I can get on the crew of one of them.
mysterycoach
/ March 1, 2012Oh this is a very nice idea
Sweet !
Jen and Tonic
/ February 29, 2012Well here is a piece of good news: WordPress is finally delivering your posts to my inbox! Huzzah!
The stalker thing makes me feel badly for you. Crazy people cannot be controlled easily. I hope this is as bad as it will get and he’ll go away.
The thing about the bad reception could be true, but it sounds like you already didn’t trust him. Life is too short– we should all be with people we don’t have to question.
trjensen
/ February 29, 2012Yeah! I know reception sucks in hospitals but he still didn’t tell me the whole truth or he asumed I knew who he was with and was trying to appease me by saying she was just a friend. Still he wasn’t upfront about it and maybe he doesn’t feel like he needs to be but if I can’t trust him then that is that. He texted me this morning to apologize for last night. I ignored it.
As for stalker guy, I blocked him on facebook and put my personal profile on lock down. Only friends, can’t look my profile up by name, so on and so forth. I did se that he recently released a self published dating guide. I am hoping he was just trying to market himself and poach my fanbase. LOL! It sounds weird to say that.
I am glad you are getting post updates again!
Jen and Tonic
/ February 29, 2012Feeling like someone is hiding the truth is the WORST. I once told a guy (who was obviously hooking up with his ex) that I’d prefer for him to say, “Hey, I was getting busy with ‘Sue’ last night. That’s why I didn’t call back.” rather than him making up a bogus excuse about some cut he got on his arm.