I have decided to impose a five date rule on myself from here on in. Why five dates? Because I really, really want to get laid and I need to stop letting my overactive sex drive get the best of me. Having sex too quickly generally plants me in the fuck buddy zone and I already have few of those lined up so I don’t need a new one. Any more than five dates and I could find a reason not to have sex with anyone. Five dates may be slightly longer than I can comfortably manage. ( I can do it.) I really need to give myself more time to make an informed decision. I also need to stop slutting it up with guys who are willing to just spend time with me with no promise that I would ever sleep with them.
That being said, I am getting to the point where I am horny as hell and I have a date with a very attractive European on Saturday night. (Pay no attention to the accent, Teri! He will still have an accent on the fifth date.) So I guess I need to work on strengthening my resolve. It has been a nearly a month since I’ve had sex and a few more weeks won’t kill me. (At least I hope not!)
It is odd that my life has changed so drastically. I went from not having sex for over a decade and really sort of losing interest in men to having to implement rules to restrain myself from just having sex. (I really want to have sex!) I want something more substantial than just sex. I want to try for something more, something more significant. I am going to try to make it five dates and my vagina will just have to deal with it.